Training For Sensual Massage Do You Really Need It?
Before being adept at anything, one must first learn basics. In the art of sensual massage, the same principle applies. One needs to master certain strategies making use of limbs like fingers, hands or perhaps feet anything that could awaken the senses. On top of that, one should also be educated in the properties of massage oils ; too much would cause your subject to ‘slip’ away, and too little might inflict discomfort and make them run away from you.
In my experience, (which I might add, without sounding superior, quite massive) coaching has it’s benefits. But then again, going in blind has its up sides too.
With training, chances of causing grievous hurt worthy of a surgery visit are minimized. Imagine rushing into the ER, body drenched in a mix of Patchouli and Lavender, and screaming while clutching your groin, or breast glands.
Not sexy.
Downright shaming.
In certain circumstances, coaching enables you to identify certain major items, express areas to attack, (sensually talking naturally) and know that in under five mins, the person on the receiving end is halfway to experiencing Nirvana. This performs wonders to one’s ego, I guarantee you. Plus it adds an entire new dimension to an otherwise missionary position if you know what I mean (wink).
The disadvantage is that the full experience can become rather stiff and expected 2 words one NEVER wants to associate with sensual MASSAGE. The puzzle is lost, and although the recipient may not be ready to spot the difference, (he or she is snoozing happily in Rah-Rah Land) the giver may feel moderately chiseled.
Now, for the other side of the coin ; diving into the erotic universe of sensual massage a virgin also has its pro and cons.
Let’s start with the cons.
- You may cause heavy injury by stomping too hard, or rubbing too much.
- Your partner might fall prey to sleep as you spent too much time ‘caressing’ his/her eyebrows.
- You might get too tired from no reply received and carry on to continue while watching ‘Ugly Betty’.
- Both parties sigh and say, Let’s go get a burger.
- You get my drift. The list is unending.
Pros : –
- The experience of discovering erogenous zones (without prior knowledge, not even a peek from your pa’s Big Book of Human Anatomy) can be a stimulating experience, particularly when you find them in the most unexpected places.
- Using God-given instincts to kick off the Pleasure Principle is a basic human right.
- Nobody gets bored, as each discovery is astounding, akin to Columbus discovering America.
Again, many possibilities.
In hearsay, a little training can be positive, and even appreciated, but it is my unbiased opinion that coaching for sensual massage is not pivotal.
Practice on one another, concurrently if at all possible. The ability of abstract thinking is in fact , a human characteristic that shouldn’t ever be enfeebled and ignored.